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The Role of Personality Types in Finding Your Perfect Match

Understanding personality types has become increasingly popular as people look for ways to build stronger, more compatible relationships. The theory is that certain traits in personalities align well with others, helping partners communicate effectively, relate to one another, and handle life’s challenges as a team. When we understand our own personality and recognize what complements it, we’re more likely to find a partner who can truly be a “perfect match.”

A well-known framework for personality typing is the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), which categorizes people into 16 unique personality types based on preferences in four areas:

  • Introversion (I) vs. Extroversion (E) — how we gain energy, either from solitude or from social interaction
  • Sensing (S) vs. Intuition (N) — how we process information, either through concrete details or abstract concepts
  • Thinking (T) vs. Feeling (F) — how we make decisions, either through logic or emotion
  • Judging (J) vs. Perceiving (P) — how we approach life, either with structure or spontaneity


Each MBTI type tends to have natural tendencies that influence romantic compatibility.
For example, extroverts may find it challenging to connect deeply with introverts if they don’t understand each other’s social needs. Meanwhile, those who prefer structure (Judging types) may find comfort in relationships with other structured types, though a more spontaneous partner (Perceiving) might help balance their lives with flexibility.

While personality typing can be a valuable guide, it’s also crucial to recognize that compatibility doesn’t just mean similarity. Sometimes, “opposites attract” can hold true, as differences allow partners to learn and grow together. For example, an extrovert may help bring an introvert out of their shell, while the introvert can provide a calming presence that helps the extrovert relax. Similarly, thinkers and feelers often balance each other well, as one brings rational perspectives while the other adds emotional sensitivity, creating a holistic approach to decision-making.

Using personality types in dating goes beyond simply identifying traits and requires a deep understanding of how each type operates under stress, handles conflict, and expresses affection. For instance, certain types might prioritize acts of service or words of affirmation in love languages, while others focus on quality time. Knowing your personality type can help you articulate these needs to a partner, increasing the chances of building a fulfilling connection.

Some other frameworks, such as the Enneagram, Big Five Personality Traits, and even the Zodiac, also offer insight into compatibility. The Enneagram, for instance, focuses on core motivations and fears, allowing partners to understand each other’s triggers and strengths. The Big Five model, used widely in psychology, examines traits like openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, and neuroticism. By examining these traits, couples can gain insight into how they might handle everyday situations or emotional challenges together.

While these models provide valuable insight, it’s important to remember that personality typing is only one piece of the puzzle. It offers guidance rather than rigid rules, as each individual and relationship is unique. Shared values, communication, respect, and a willingness to grow together are just as essential for a lasting bond.

In sum, personality typing can be a powerful tool in finding your ideal match, shedding light on your compatibility with potential partners and giving you a road map for navigating relationship dynamics. By acknowledging both similarities and differences, you can seek relationships that respect your individuality while bringing out the best in each other, leading to a partnership that grows with you.

Athena Dykman, a native Canadian, has seen and done it all. Besides Numerology, Taro, and Astrology, Athena is an intuitive reader - she's been in business for over 10 years as a personal advisor. Since 2020, she has been writing for MyAstrology. Her topics range from occultism to esoterica to art to parenting to feminism to fortune telling.

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