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3 Golden Rules For Finding Love Without Compromising Who You Are

For single, successful women, finding love should not be an overwhelming challenge. The key lies in striking a balance — embracing your feminine energy while stepping back from the masculine energy that contributes to external success. By doing so, you reset your worthiness gauge to receive love and relationships abundantly.

It’s time to recognize your fascinating essence and embrace the journey to meet your life partner. A man yearns to be with a woman who values partnership, fulfillment, and fearless love. Here are three golden rules for finding love without compromising your authentic self:

  1. Be a Gracious Receiver: Your intentions should revolve around not just the eagerness to please, but also listening to, understanding, and receiving from your man in a way that honors who you are. Men take pride in being good providers, not just financially, but also in problem-solving and making their partners happy. Embrace your worthiness of lasting love, allowing you to connect with a man who appreciates your unique blend of strengths and vulnerabilities. Show compassion, acceptance, and unconditional love.

    As a gracious receiver, you are unafraid to initiate an interaction with a man you’re interested in, but you also value yourself enough to let him pursue the relationship. By allowing him to chase you, he exercises his romantic muscles, strengthening the connection between you both.

  1. Let Your Relationships be Intentional: Your ideal man is emotionally available and committed to a meaningful relationship. This means not dating someone who is already married or in a relationship, and also avoiding those who have just separated, been separated for a long time, or are not over their ex-partners. 

    A man of integrity, who values himself and seeks a successful, long-lasting relationship, will thoughtfully develop a mental picture of the woman he wants to marry. He will take time to get to know you and earn your trust, avoiding wasting your time and emotions for self-gratification. An open and honest communication style is crucial in this process. Trust your instincts, and never ignore red flags. Your man will appreciate your transparency, as he desires to connect with you on intellectual, emotional, and spiritual levels.

    Allow the relationship to progress at a pace that feels comfortable for both of you. Avoid being too readily available, and let him earn your time and attention. Maintaining a sense of mystery can be alluring, but be cautious if he seems overly mysterious.

  1. Have Boundaries and Standards: Take responsibility for setting and maintaining healthy physical, sexual, financial, and informational boundaries in your relationship. A balanced dynamic involves giving and receiving, ensuring both partners feel respected and valued.

    Embrace emotional boundaries, ensuring you have quality time together while also nurturing time apart. Each of you should have the freedom to socialize with family and friends individually and pursue personal interests without seeking permission. Emphasize the importance of being your own person, as it encourages a healthy balance between separateness and togetherness.

    Respect your physical boundaries by taking your time and not rushing into anything you’re not ready for. This may include waiting before sharing a first kiss. Remember, you owe your date nothing; his reward is the pleasure of your company. You are enough, and you are worthy.

Empowering Your Love Journey: Our goal is to empower and educate you, providing the tools necessary to avoid those who are incapable of expressing true love, and supporting your healing journey when love and the loveless collide. You are wired to love and be loved fearlessly.

Embrace the wisdom within you, as it will guide you towards the love you deserve. By striking a balance, maintaining boundaries, and embracing your worthiness, you can attract and nurture a meaningful and loving relationship with a partner who cherishes you for who you truly are.

Athena Dykman, a native Canadian, has seen and done it all. Besides Numerology, Taro, and Astrology, Athena is an intuitive reader - she's been in business for over 10 years as a personal advisor. Since 2020, she has been writing for MyAstrology. Her topics range from occultism to esoterica to art to parenting to feminism to fortune telling.

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