Sagittarius December 2021 Monthly Horoscope

The focus on communication within your relationships returns this month. Being on the same wavelength as your partner is vital to the health of your relationship, and you are looking to revitalize this element.  You need more intellectual stimulation; you want the sole attention of your partner, not attention divided between you, the iPad, the iPhone, etc. If the communication is not of the quality you expect, look to yourself for answers – have you been too critical? Have you been trying to score points rather than actually listening to what your partner has to say? Has your partner given up trying to talk to you as you over-analyze or rationalize away problems?  Often Virgos are very analytical when perhaps all your lover wants to hear is “poor thing” or “that’s horrible.”  Sometimes when someone pours their heart out they want sympathy and a hug, not analysis or being told why their problem is not really a problem.  Learn to give people what they want when they share, rather than what you think they need.  Often people just want to talk to get it out, and they don’t find a barrage of advice that helpful.

New relationships can be very successful right now as you have so much energy to give, and you are devoid of cynicism, seeing only the best and bringing out the best in others. Resist parental interference in your love life and remember that their advice may not be helpful or may be driven by motives you do not understand.

You must learn to love yourself and live for yourself according to your own unique values and destiny. Shun comparisons to others and revel in being your own special person with your own divine path in life.  Fulfilment comes from within and not from material things or even from being loved.  So don’t resort to the deadly sins, you don’t have to – be you and be proud of being you.

You will experience a renewed sense of purpose in life, and this will help you make decisions that will help broaden your scope of experience.  There will be the chance for travel and also further learning. Your health will improve, and if you have had poor health or injuries, you will now convalesce quickly.  Mentally, your attitude is much more positive, and you will have the inner strength to move on from negative situations and habits which have hampered your life in the past. You are likely to meet many new people in the next few months, and these people will enrich your life and also bring a new element of understanding to you.

The tempo of life’s events is fast and furious right now, you will not be able to sit back and relax as things will be happening, the phone will be ringing, and life can take some surprising turns.  It is an exciting time of much communication and interaction with others.  You will have to be adaptable and able to respond to changing situations quickly.  This is a time of surprise, and you can be jolted out of your comfort zone, but this is a good thing as often the comfort zone is the biggest block to potential. This month is a chance to take a new and stimulating view of life and to renew your thinking on many issues.  Experimentation with new activities, ideas, people and places is likely – you are spontaneous and may surprise others with your actions at times.