Libra December 2021 Monthly Horoscope

You enjoy living without structure and you embrace little disruption right now. If you normally live alone, you may also get a great deal of benefit from living within a family environment where there are children.

It's a good month to get married or engaged if you have been together for a long period. You really have to take things forward now, if you have been together and have still not made a commitment, why not? The future needs to be considered in relationships, do you both agree on a vision for the future? It's a good month for a relationship audit where you can appreciate how far you have come and what you have achieved together, but where you are also cognizant of work that still needs to be done it where you acknowledge the upcoming hurdles and put your heads together to devise a unified approach.

Remember to encourage and support your partner, give positive feedback and be grateful. It's easy to criticize a partner when he falls short, and also easy to forget to be grateful for what's he's doing right. So, more carrot less stick is key this month.

Taking yourself too seriously can hamper relations with your partner – you are torn between the need to have fun and move on and yet nagging doubts, fears and resentments keep surfacing and you cannot shake them off.  Deeper issues in the relationship are troubling you even though on the surface everything is rolling along nicely, this can translate as an unwillingness to experience intimacy and a certain coolness and detachment when you are alone with your partner.  Things go really well when you are with friends and family, but when alone as a couple, conversation is forced – it’s maybe you who just has to get over yourself and release these doubts.  Nothing can be perfect, but while you cling to issues, no future without those issues is possible.  Everyone else has moved on and so must you – life has no reverse on forward.

Attitudes in sex and love are inextricably linked to your experience with your mother this month.  If your mother was loving and supportive you will have a smooth and positive month within communications and sexual matters in your love life.  You will find it easy to give, share and let go emotionally both in new and older relationships. However if you had a mother who was critical, unloving or vague them you may well have internalized messages about yourself which are negative and which can impact your current relationship or even long term relationship formation. This month Libra should look to their relationship with Mom, to see how this is impacting on their self-esteem and your current relationships.

Venus conjunct your second house ruler at the eclipse indicates a positive month for your financial affairs. You may get a bonus, make increased sales or hit targets. You may also gain from passive income i.e. publishing or royalties.

The innate tendency of Libra to look at pros and cons is activated and you are very indecisive, however you are also very informed, you just have yet to decide how to deal with that information.

Dealings with colleagues and associates are confusing and people will give you contradictory signals. It's better to be one of the crowd, it's too early to break for the leadership role, if you do, you will quickly lose the initiative and look like you made a miscalculation.

You may need to commute extensively this month in order to effectively manage your business or communicate with clients. Trips are often sudden and unplanned.