This is not a good month to get married or engaged. However, that doesn't mean it's a bad month for relationships, but it is one where there are more arguments or jostling for position. You need to be cognizant of how reactive you are in relationships, how do you respond to your own anger and is this productive? Do you shut down, complain to friends, or try and control your partner by flirting, with innuendo or making pointed jokes? These make you feel better in the short run, but are rarely going to address anything significant.
So, what should you do? You don't have to sit down and solve every problem rationally, but don't react in the heat of the moment. The best thing to do when things get heated is to tell your partner that you need to calm down and gather your thoughts, make it clear to him that you appreciate the significance of the problems or of his feelings, and that it's important to you to work things out in a balanced and calm way. This is very important as it shuts down that rising temperature, however it also shows that you appreciate and respect his point of view, but you aren't going to be railroaded into a decision just because the level of tension is high. What's more, this buys you time. Then, you can get up and leave the room or the house, you've said all you need to day.
Remember that you can't control your partner's behavior, don't let his anger or his silent treatment force your hand, often you will do it say anything to get things back to normal, this forces you to compromise. Instead, tell him you are more than willing to talk and resolve things when he's ready, then leave it there, don't engage with his anger or passive aggression anymore. The ball is now in his court and if he wants something, he has to either calm down or stop the sulking and approach you in a reasonable way. This totally reduces his insensitive to use active or passive aggression to control you.
This is a month of fated attraction, not fatal attraction as in the film, so no bunny boilers. Gemini who are single may have intense encounters with new people and while the initial meeting can be uncomfortable, there is a curiosity which makes you want to see them again despite the initial signs being confusing.
New relationships have a great deal of sexual tension which can hamper communication and so most of what you learn is by observation rather than what he actually tells you.
This is an excellent time for negotiating with others over money matters. Your ability to make deals, understand the motives and agendas of others and be persuasive is excellent. You are sharp and can make quick connections between disparate things to find solutions.
Gemini who make money by mediating, advising or through the legal profession are very busy, you may have more work that you know what to do with.
You are able to make good financial decisions because you understand the fundamental issues and have good self-control. Changes in the level of resources available are positive, you have greater access to money, cash and the relevant information meaning you can move things forward quickly in your business. Others may give you tips and leads, your business associates tend to be more helpful.
Physical contact with people who matter to you is more important, you have a need emotionally for a solid base and an anchor. You may seek to strengthen the relationship you have with your parents or significant attachment figures as you need their support now more than usual. You tend to think about emotional issues more often and while Gemini never dwell in the past, there is a certain poignancy to this month where past and present collide in a way in which matters suddenly resolve or become clear.
Talkative, curious, adaptable, fast learners, multitaskers
Scattered, two-faced, uncommitted, struggle to finish what they start
Games, socializing, reading books, learning new hobbies, movement
Routine, restrictions, solitude, silence
Those born under the Sun Sign of Gemini are children at heart, no matter how old they are. They love to play games, meet new people, talk for hours, and have fun. Gemini individuals have a quick way of thinking.
They are intelligent and know random facts about all subjects, but they hardly delve deeply into any of them. Our Gemini folks are always on the go, multitasking and talking with several people at the same time.
They hate routine and feel comfortable in changing environments.
Gemini characters LOVE spontaneous outings, and they get along with all kinds of people, even those with opposite personalities. Hence, some people consider Geminis two-faced, as they can adapt to both sides of the spectrum.
Gemini is an Air sign, which means they are intellectual, rational, and detached in their relationships. They can analyze their problems objectively and put themselves in the other person’s shoes without judging or involving their feelings or values. Also, they need plenty of personal space, or they can quickly suffocate and feel overwhelmed.
The ruling planet of Gemini is Mercury, which represents communication and our mental process. Therefore, they have excellent communication skills, which makes them fine spokespersons.
They can convince others of whatever they set their minds to since they are eloquent, charming, and above all, funny! Geminians could be famous comedians and make a living from entertaining large audiences.
What does the Gemini sign mean?
Gemini is an Earth Sign that loves movement, socializing, and learning new things. If this is your Sun Sign, it means you have a fun and easygoing personality. You can adapt to all circumstances and people without complaining and enjoy spontaneous and unforeseen events.
What is Gemini attracted to?
Gemini are attracted to engaging conversations, intellectual pursuits, and crowded locations. They like to relate with friendly and outgoing personalities, ready to embark on a fun and unexpected journey with them.
These signs are compatible with passionate people such as Sagittarius, Aries, and Leo.
What type of person is a Gemini?
Gemini shy away from drama and complex relationships or environments. They like to keep things simple and share a good laugh with anyone who crosses their path! Being around a Gemini guarantees you’ll never get bored or feel uncomfortable by their side. They, indeed, are the life and soul of the party.
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